Go with the flow, but have one “must do” each day so we don’t come back like “what did we even see?”

I get anxious if we don’t at least book tickets and main sights in advance. Lines are not romantic.

No plans. Wake up, see how we feel, wander. That’s the fun part of traveling.

I want an itinerary, but with built-in “do nothing” blocks. Structure with breathing room.

Fully planned please. I don’t fly somewhere just to argue on the sidewalk about where to eat.