End of the day, if you need either of these, we’re not compatible. I’d “vote: break up.”

At my age if someone disappears for hours, I assume they died. So check the phone instead.

My only non-negotiable is privacy. Once you go through my phone, I mentally check out.

Joke’s on them, my screen time report will scare them more than any DM.

Honestly if you don’t trust me, both options suck. But yeah, I’ll take the snooping over ghosting.

Let them disappear. I enjoy the peace sometimes 😂 just come back alive.

Check my phone if you want, there’s nothing but cat videos and food pics anyway.

I’ll take the phone checking. At least they’re there and not vanishing into thin air.